I love the advice you give. I listen to you every night and I love reading your column in the newspaper. I am 18 years old and I used to have a boyfriend.
I had been talking to a guy from my first year in high school. I moved to another area to live and we lost contact. One day I was on the road and I saw him again.
We exchanged numbers and we started to communicate again. Every time I went to visit a family member, this guy would pick me up and take me back home.
I stopped going back and forth, so I started permanently living with a family member. This guy used to visit me late at nights when everyone was asleep.
I usually left with him and would come back early the following morning, until I stopped doing so and started living with him. Few months after, I became pregnant with twins.
But I had a miscarriage. Before I had the miscarriage, we used to argue a lot because I found out that he was communicating with other girls, and yet when I was on my phone, he would argue with me. So one night we had a massive fight that caused us to break up our relationship, and since then I cannot find myself loving anyone apart from him.
We have continued to have sex although we are not together. I really need your advice.
R.M.
Source: Jamaica Star
